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Mayfly Blog
We'll share musings from our coaches and advice from our experts along the community journey.



One Word for 2026
One focus. One direction. One simple tool to help you progress through the next stage of the journey you’re actually in.
Raj Hayer
Dec 21, 20255 min read


Rewiring Our Minds for Wealth
At Wayfinders Summit 2025, Kate Gondouin revealed how neuroscience can rewire our relationship with money. Discover the SCARF and AIR models that reshape wealth from within.

Raj Hayer
Jan 255 min read


One Word for 2026
One focus. One direction. One simple tool to help you progress through the next stage of the journey you’re actually in.

Raj Hayer
Dec 21, 20255 min read


Create Your Headline: A Vision Board for Your Mission in Life
Mayfly Maven Toolkit: Create Your Headline What would your life look like if your purpose made the front page? That’s the power of the Create Your Headline exercise, my favourite coaching tool to guide you in visualising and defining your mission in life. It’s a simple but powerful way to create clarity, connection, and momentum for the vision you want to live. Whether you're launching a new business, reimagining your career, or ready to finally put yourself first, this tool

Raj Hayer
Nov 7, 20254 min read


Reclaiming Financial Power & Building Wealth on Your Own Terms
Disclaimer: Nothing in the content materials shall be considered legal, financial, or actuarial advice. Photo credit: Mannaïg Fouillen,...

Raj Hayer
Sep 19, 20255 min read


The OK Corral: A Simple Map to Better Reactions and Stronger Relationships
Mayfly Maven Toolkit: The OK Corral In the fast-paced world of leadership, communication, and personal growth, one truth continues to...

Raj Hayer
Sep 5, 20255 min read


Powerful Negotiations: How to Achieve Optimal Outcomes in Every Conversation
Taken from the Mayfly Maven Powerful Negotiations Toolkit When we think of negotiation, we often picture high-stakes boardroom battles or...

Raj Hayer
Jul 31, 20255 min read


Unlocking the Power of Mastermind Groups: Shared Wisdom, Real Transformation
Taken from the Mayfly Maven Failure Sharing Toolkit For over a decade, I’ve witnessed firsthand how Mastermind Groups transform lives....

Raj Hayer
Jul 17, 20254 min read


Reset & reflection: A Simple Yet Powerful Path to Intentional Growth
Taken from the Mayfly Maven Reset & Reflection Toolkit In the fast-moving pace of our modern world, it’s easy to move from one project to...

Raj Hayer
Jul 3, 20254 min read


Failure Sharing: The Untapped Powerhouse of Innovation in Teams
Taken from the Mayfly Maven Failure Sharing Toolkit When we think about innovation, we often imagine bursts of genius, game-changing...

Raj Hayer
Jun 19, 20255 min read


Life Design for Entrepreneurs: Crafting a Purpose-Driven Business Journey
Life design is for everyone. Even busy solopreneurs and entrepreneurs.

Raj Hayer
Nov 29, 20244 min read


Finding Purpose Through Adversity: A Journey of Intentional Life Design
Being intentional in life design involves recognising one's survival and existence as purposeful.

Raj Hayer
Oct 4, 20244 min read


100 Ways to Celebrate Your Successes
Celebrate Your Successes Our journey has ups and downs, and hard work is essential. Taking breaks to celebrate milestones, big or small, is crucial for maintaining motivation and preventing burnout. Recognising achievements keeps us balanced and motivated, ensuring we stay positive and resilient throughout our journey. Every achievement deserves recognition. We often have an easier time celebrating our wins; they are easy to recognise and fun to celebrate, allowing us to ref

Raj Hayer
May 30, 20247 min read


Focus on what you can control and increase your influence
Change the things you can, accept the things you can’t, and have the wisdom to know the difference between the two.

Raj Hayer
Feb 4, 20244 min read


Why distance helps with tough decisions
If you are in the midst of indecision or having a particularly tough challenge, try to take a bit of distance from it.

Raj Hayer
Dec 17, 20234 min read


Female power | Find your voice, and then use it
Female power | Find your voice, and then use it.

Raj Hayer
Sep 30, 20234 min read


You can’t get rid of anxiety but you can overcome it
It’s normal to feel under pressure or stressed. Humans were designed to feel anxiety, without it, we would be extinct.

Simone Smith
Sep 24, 20233 min read


How to tell if you are close to psychological burnout and what to do about it
Psychological burnout is a state of physical, emotional, and mental exhaustion caused by excessive and prolonged stress.

Simone Smith
Sep 10, 20232 min read


Why you probably are a bully and how to stop negative self-talk
Are you a bully? Yes, probably. Because I didn’t think I was a bully until I heard how I speak to myself.

Raj Hayer
Aug 18, 20234 min read


Asking for a raise: Are you getting paid what you are worth?
It is in your and your company’s best interests for you to feel valued at your workplace. Do the groundwork to determine your worth.

Raj Hayer
Jul 13, 20234 min read


Asking for a promotion: Are you advocating for yourself?
Yes, asking for a raise is a scary prospect, but here is the hard, undeniable truth - if you don’t ask, you definitely won't get it.

Raj Hayer
Jul 6, 20233 min read
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