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Mayfly Blog
We'll share musings from our coaches and advice from our experts along the community journey.



One Word for 2026
One focus. One direction. One simple tool to help you progress through the next stage of the journey you’re actually in.
Raj Hayer
Dec 21, 20255 min read


Meditation — How to sit down, sit still and silence the mind
Six simple steps to start practising meditation today Marrakech Retreat 2022 | Mayfly Retreats Meditation is a tool that cannot be...

Raj Hayer
Dec 10, 20225 min read


The holidays are upon us - To indulge or not to indulge?
Gut health and autoimmune health are intimately connected. So, focusing on foods that promote gut health makes sense. A functioning gut...

Raj Hayer
Dec 2, 20222 min read


How Meditation Influences the Four Pillars of Health
The benefits of meditation are profound and far-reaching [source unknown] Those of us who don’t know how to meditate remain willfully ignorant of the benefits and consistently ignore this practice with dire consequences. Meditation originates in India and predates 3,500 BCE; the practice itself has been adapted and changed, and these days it transcends spiritual beliefs. “Meditation — because some questions can’t be answered by Google.” — Wandering Yogi The benefits of medit

Raj Hayer
Nov 27, 20223 min read


Meditation and the Collective Consciousness
Let’s all get on the same page “I was just thinking” — Raj Hayer, New York 2016 Is it possible if everyone had started meditating and...

Raj Hayer
Nov 20, 20223 min read


Meditation as a Daily Practice
Are you ready to peel back the layers? “The world within” — Raj Hayer, Dublin, 2018 There are many myths and misunderstandings about...

Raj Hayer
Nov 11, 20224 min read


The power lies within us, it always has
Maslow’s Hierarchy of Needs: Quarantine edition. “Buddha got this” — Raj Hayer, Thailand 2012 “What is necessary to change a person is to...

Raj Hayer
Nov 6, 20225 min read


Incremental actions lead to big changes, reset, refocus and take action
Sometimes we need to step back from our current lives and situation to reflect and ponder not only what the right path might be but also...

Raj Hayer
Oct 30, 20223 min read


We are all OK, Transactional Analysis for negotiations
During the Mayfly retreats, a crucial component is our focus on one tool or habit or skill that can help individuals along their journey....

Simone Smith
Oct 27, 20223 min read


Four steps to a happier work life
The Four Agreements in the workplace Recently I shared the Four Agreements as a tool to handle quarantine and lead a generally happier...

Raj Hayer
Oct 23, 20224 min read


We all experience some level of anxiety
I’m not anxious, you are! I truly believe most human beings have anxiety. Maybe it’s not always extreme but they have it. Anxiety is the...

Raj Hayer
Oct 16, 20224 min read


How to lead a happier life using a simple tool
Why “The Four Agreements” work “Faces” Temple, Siam Reap, Cambodia — Raj Hayer, 2013 There are schools of thought, that believe our...

Raj Hayer
Oct 9, 20225 min read


3 tips for retaining and increasing energy from your networks
The term “networking” has developed a negative connotation over time, associated with building relationships purely to get ahead in your...

Raj Hayer
Oct 1, 20225 min read


Knowing and standing by your value as a freelancer
My biggest challenge in becoming a freelancer and entrepreneur has been to charge for my value and never negotiate down from what I am...

Raj Hayer
Sep 9, 20224 min read


Negotiating The Excess: How to simplify and make space for more of what matters
There is wonderful magic created by freedom and lightness when you release the excess. When our focus is on creating space for joy and purpose, as opposed to filling the void of discontentment, we discover important ways of being in the world and consequently uncover our own expectations of time, resources and relationships. Today’s world of having more, doing more, and being more triggers deep insecurities of not being enough and somehow, we believe the next breakthrough pro

Simone Smith
Sep 3, 20223 min read


Three tips to becoming a powerful negotiator in everyday life
Negotiations were something I wanted to dive into deeper as I felt I was deficient in this area. Evidence of this cumulated in me leaving...

Simone Smith
Sep 1, 20223 min read


Bringing back a morning rhythm
Mindset shift and motivation Being at home consistently has brought back a rhythm I didn’t even realise I was missing. The morning...

Raj Hayer
Aug 17, 20223 min read


Don’t treat life like it is a zero-sum game
Spoiler alert — it’s not — it’s a win-win! I am no stranger to adversity, open heart surgery and facial reconstruction have taught me...

Raj Hayer
Aug 15, 20223 min read


For the love of books
Let’s never let them go A short reflection. “That moment when you finish a book, look around, and realize that everyone is just carrying...

Raj Hayer
Aug 14, 20222 min read


How to build trust in the virtual world
This is an opportunity for values that can change the world “Do you trust me?” Avengers, End Game — Marvel Studios & Walt Disney Studios...

Raj Hayer
Aug 13, 20227 min read
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